This past week has been like any other I’ve ever experienced. Volunteering for one week on an organic farm, I’ve been roughing it in the countryside to get insight into this alternative Danish lifestyle…
Achieved through the website ‘Workaway’, my host for the week would be Mel – a tall, cheerful and warm presence. Her favourite shops are thrift, her food is 100% home grown and her smile always invites you to do the same.
We meet outside the empty Skalbjerg station and despite the long journey, I find my energy levels raised as we greet one another like old friends.We walk and talk on the way to her home, and discuss her own ‘pursuit of happiness’ — swapping the familiar city life for the alien countryside. This change was quite recent, and as a result, she states she’s currently living “quite primitive” and goes on to make a joke of having no access to the internet.
At the time I paid the statement no mind, however upon entry to her humble abode, I realised ‘primitive’ was as accurate as can be.The tour lasted less than 2 minutes and included a plastic box which acted as the ‘fridge’, a toilet which didn’t accept paper, one broken tap with only cold water, a garden hose with complimentary shower head adapter and a bedroom decorated with cobwebs and partial flooring. It was at this point I genuinely wondered, what an earth have I gotten myself into?!
However in the spirit of ‘going all in’, I simply smiled and responded “this’ll do”, when the tour culminated with the patch of grass I would be sleeping on.
In a way that last sentence epitomises my time at Mel’s.A week of continually challenging myself and adapting — all whilst with a smile on my face. I fully embraced every experience and ultimately had an incredible week full of knowledge, selfless giving and personal contentment.
On reflecting on why this was — my complete indulgence in this somewhat extreme version of the danish countryside culture, led me to fulfilling all 5 happiness actions within one week!
I connected with Mel and Halu (fellow workawayer from Japan) through many great conversations on topics such as history, cultural intricacies, philosophy, music, food etc. On reflection a key contributor to this was meal time, where we would regularly make time and get together to share breakfast, lunch and dinner. I wouldn’t necessarily say the regularity of meal get togethers is Danish, however the element of sharing food and great conversation over a candle light, certainly is.
This whole week was about giving. I completely indulged in the Danish countryside culture of selflessly helping others. In my normal day to day back home, I try to do this, however I’ve found it’s very easy to get caught up in the general busyness of life and focus on yourself. Giving quickly became much more than the 4 mandatory work hours, I seized every opportunity to give my time and energy to someone else.Whether it was giving english lessons to Halu, helping restore an old bike or creating a lamp shade from scratch for an uber bright bedroom light.